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Asexual/Aromantic 3w
How do you know if you have a crush? I'm 20 and never had one but I've been contemplating if I have one on my best friend of 9 years. Before this I've been adamant that I'm ace/aro. Can I have a crush and be aro?
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Anonymous 3w

Imagine yourself doing romantic things with them, lije kissing. If it feels right, then you might have a crush! If it feels wrong, then it’s probably platonic

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Anonymous 3w

well aromantic means you don't experience any romantic attraction but you can still be on the aromantic spectrum! like maybe grey or demi might feel like better fits for you?

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Anonymous 3w

It doesn't feel forced, I wouldn't mind kissing her, there are moments in time where it felt like the right thing to do but again we're just friends.

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Anonymous replying to -> keybladeofthelostcities 3w

Kissing them doesn't feel wrong but also not right? Like the thought of it seems normal, nothing strange or big or life changing. Going on a date seems normal too.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Does it feel forced? Do you WANT to kiss them?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ok

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