Yik Yak logo
Download TikTok Instagram X
Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
Ask Men icon
Ask Men 17w
is it true that if you’ve had feelings for a girl once you’ll always be open to dating her (assuming you didn’t date before & are single ofc)? i was talking to my guy friend and he said that his crushes never really go away like the door is always open
comment

12
upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 17w

Not always, it depends. Even if she didn’t do anything crazy, people just tend to change over time, and wants and goals tend to change too.

upvote 5 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 17w

also assuming she didn’t do anything crazy to make you stop liking her lmao

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 17w

Not always

upvote 2 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 17w

Often but not always, yes.

upvote 2 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous 17w

No

upvote 1 downvote
user profile icon
Anonymous 17w

Not always

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 17w

Absolutely TF NOT! I loved my ex, but after that whore broke up with me during the worst time of my life, I would give Satan a chance before I gave her one.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 17w

I had crushes on my ex's that don't exist anymore because I got to know them better. But as long as nothing changes from when I started crushing on them, then sure. But it's not a guarantee

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

this is how i feel as well. like i think i’d need to get to know my high school crush all over again for those feelings to potentially resurface. and even then they probably wouldn’t because i’ve had relationships since then and i feel like a different person. ig my friend was saying he has an easier time putting himself back in the mindset of who he was when he liked that girl and would probably like her again if he did once

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

assuming you didn’t date lmaooo i know most people don’t want to get back with their ex

upvote 4 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Wym? Assuming you didn’t date?…

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #8 17w

It means you missed the part in the original question where they said someone you once had feelings for but never dated, not your ex…

upvote 3 downvote