Ask Men on Yik Yak | So I tell the guys I’m talking with/dating that I’m abstinent and don’t plan on being sexual, and yet weeks later they either try to convince me to hook up with them, or get mad that I’m not budging on being abstinent. Is there a way to prevent this?

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Ask Men 4w

So I tell the guys I’m talking with/dating that I’m abstinent and don’t plan on being sexual, and yet weeks later they either try to convince me to hook up with them, or get mad that I’m not budging on being abstinent. Is there a way to prevent this?

Anonymous 4w

Dont start talking with them/let them know your boundaries first and if they overstep get rid of them

Anonymous 4w

Find a man of faith

Anonymous 4w

Like abstinent for how long…

Anonymous 4w

Anonymous

#4 4w

No clue I haven’t decided, but I probably would have sex with a long term partner who I was comfortable with and was setting myself up to marry

Anonymous

OP 4w

I mean it’s hard to say with that 😭i would only have sex in a LTR but if ur talking like over a year idk man ur gonna struggle

Anonymous

stanczyk 4w

men of faith still have sex too 😭