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Would you date a woman with low-self esteem/self hatred? I’m not talking about the normal nitpicking that most women have, I mean actual self hatred over their looks.
#poll
Yes
No
I’m gay or aroace
I’m a girl 💅
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Anonymous 6w

Me & the other 2 gay dudes in this community being useless yet included in the poll is a win

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Anonymous 6w

Why would you have self hatred over your looks? Is it mental health related?

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Anonymous 6w

most of the girls i find attractive probably don’t like the way they look (I like girls with huge bellies)

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Anonymous 6w

from experience it can cause a lot of issues in the relationship. work on yourself first

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Anonymous 6w

Yes and I have. That being said, I’d encourage them to see someone about it so I’m not their only emotional support.

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Anonymous 6w

Personally no because I know how mentally draining constantly reassuring your partner can be. I’m all for supporting your partner, but I’m not in a place to be that level of supportive without it having effects on my own mental health

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Anonymous 6w

Guarantee it isn’t worse than what I have

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Anonymous 6w

That’s even better. They’re easier to manipulate

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

🤮

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

I’m not gay, I’m aroace 😭 but our combined category has gained members

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

*hi I’m invading the community, but from personal experience, it was from coming home everyday to my mother finding something wrong about my appearance. After half a decade later I finally was able to get over it, but it’s a struggle that only the girl herself can truly overcome. So yeah, mental health related.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 6w

This is something my most recent ex told me, the fact that she’s easy to manipulate

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

I’m so sorry that happened to you. No one deserves to be criticized over their looks and tormented daily.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 6w

I'm so happy you got over it! 👏👏👏

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