Anonymous #1 21h

Gay asf 😂

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Anonymous #5 19h

Gay is not an insult, don't use it as one. That's disrespectful to gay and bi people

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Anonymous #3 18h

Yeah, I really get you. I think that one’s a little harder to answer because I feel like girls tend to be a bit more open about their feelings in general but like I know, I’m very open about my feelings and that’s still not something I feel like I’d really say to someone unless I really meant it.

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Anonymous #6 15h

Hmmm I’m not really sure

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Anonymous OP 15h

Does he talk to you about his feelings or does he cling to you in public

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Anonymous #6 15h

He’s definitely started to open up more about his feelings and stuff and we’re not necessarily out in public together a whole lot or really ever so I don’t really know

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Anonymous OP 15h

Sounds like emotional safety so please for the love of god don’t hurt this man cus the recovery after being hurt like that sucks

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Anonymous #6 15h

I mean, I really don’t plan on it at all because I really understand how hard it is to let someone in after you’ve been hurt time of time again in the past the way he has cause I experienced very similar things growing up. And like I made another post, not too long ago asking if there’s anything else I could do to reassure him because I want him to continue feeling safe and hopefully cared about

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Anonymous OP 15h

You help him by giving him a place he can come to and feel safe sharing things It’s up to him to want to heal and it takes time and understanding so your doing right by him

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Anonymous #6 15h

Yeah, I think at least I hope I’m doing that. He started to definitely open up more about things which I’m really happy about.

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Anonymous OP 15h

Trust me as a man who has been hurt and didn’t have someone to go to you are doing right by him and I wish there was more of you out there

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Anonymous #6 15h

Yeah I’m just worried I’m gonna end up liking him more than I already do and then it’ll go nowhere and I’ll be the one getting hurt again

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Anonymous OP 15h

That is the gamble with relationships you open yourself which means you can get hurt but I would urge you to live in the moment and not to fear the future cus for all you know this may be the one if you stick it out and put forth the effort

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Anonymous #6 15h

Yeah, that’s what my friends and I think I just also wanted to ask on here because if a guy was reading this and was like no girl you’re an idiot he’s never gonna want you. It would be better to know now.

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Anonymous OP 14h

If someone said that on here I’d throw hands lk

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Anonymous #6 14h

Yeah I mean I feel like I just never know what guys are thinking so if I was to get on here and someone wants to be like “you’re thinking too much into it He’s not gonna want a relationship with you ever” then I’d probably take more stock in that than what my friends said

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Anonymous OP 14h

I really agree with User #6! I know every person will be different but generally speaking (and for me too), it is really hard to open up about really deep feelings and trust them with someone so I think the fact that he does with you is notable. Even if it turns out he doesn't feel the same about you as you do for him, I think he definitely sees you as a deeply close friend he admires

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