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my male coworker told me that our new coworker we're both friends with was interested in me until he found out more about me and how many guy friends i have. is that really a turn off? i'm into cars, video games and anime... LOL
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Anonymous 6w

You’re a nerd

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Anonymous 6w

Well I mean if it is he's prolly a little insecure

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Anonymous 6w

You sound cool and he sounds insecure

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Anonymous 5w

It shouldn’t be like that big of a deal, but it isn’t a green flag by any means. Sometimes it’s just like how you were raised and that happens because of common interests that are usually men’s. Other times it’s because girls are looking for men’s attention, pick me stereotype if you would. So it is a turn off for some guys bc it can be a red flag. In ur case if it’s common interest in cars and video games ur fine, but that’s probs why

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Anonymous 6w

forgot to mention i already have a boyfriend so nothing would have happened anyways. but i've always had more guy friends ALWAYS because it just makes sense. i've only met a handful of girls who are into the same things 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

thats awesome i love it

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Anonymous replying to -> purp_diamond 6w

thats what i was thinking... ive just never heard another guy say that before

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I have

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

I mean there are women who don't like it when their boyfriend has female friends so

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

So why are u bothered by this 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> purp_diamond 6w

my boyfriend has some female friends and idrc thats up to his discretion and ive never had a reason to not trust him so = healthy relationship i guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

so fax gang

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

i just wanted to know if anyone else had a similar experience with this or if that was something other guys related to!!! thats why i posted it on yikyak :) freak

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