Just communicate that you want something long term beforehand, enforce your boundaries and don’t give into their wanting to hu, and make sure there are actual long term compatibilities that y’all have between you. I would go join up clubs/orgs with things you’re interested in, the guys there alr have a similarity w you that way, talk to them to sus out what kinda person they are, and move from there

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Gym is awkward but effective spot, gym bros are like fifty fifty on either assholes, or quite romantics who you won’t see out other than in the gym. Issue is approaching at gym is a bit frowned upon so it’s awkward spot. I can’t think of anywhere else though bc most respectful guys that are also attractive are usually quiter and aren’t at like clubs as much and there no other specific hobby I could think of

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Dating apps and filter for those wanting “long term relationships”

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You don’t? What’s wrong is that you’re looking specifically for a guy that doesn’t want to have sex with you, as if wanting to means they respect you less. Even if you want a relationship, ur bf is still gonna want to fuck you. I’ve heard unconfirmed reports of even MARRIED ppl having sex. In fact, most guys assume it would be a dealbreaker for you if they DIDN’T want you that way; they were probably surprised if the opposite is true for you. Consider that some of those guys might still have had

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