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how do I get over a guy I never dated but I like him a lot I feel insane and am clawing at the walls of my enclosure
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Anonymous 10w

Me when I found out my coworker wasn’t into me but she was just being nice and is engaged 😔

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Anonymous 10w

I will say that you could tell them ASSUMING that they’re not in a relationship. Most guys appreciate that cause some of us are dense as lead

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Anonymous 10w

I’m in the same boat as you but wit a lady

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Gonna rephrase that. Tell them that you like them. Maybe don’t lead in with the “I’m feral for you” stuff. That might scare them a little

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

it’s not like he doesn’t know I like him, we just never were in a relationship and this weird inbetween thing ended so im sad about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Ohh, got it. I’m gonna be honest, I’m kinda (really) awkward, so when it gets to this, I have no idea what to say. Only thing is tell him unless it was like an explosive or bad end I guess?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Yeah like 2 said if things didn’t end badly then might as well talk to him about it communication is the name of the game

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

ok I fear I’m bad at explaining this, I basically got friendzoned, he did it very kindly but it’s going to impact me going forward and if there’s anything to make it easier to lose the feelings that’s more what im asking

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Ah you got friendzoned. Lowkey you just gotta stop hanging out with him as much and do other things to get your mind off it. It sucks but what can you do

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Like you don’t have to stop being friends with him don’t do that but you won’t be able to move on at all if you don’t change anything cause that’s what got u here in the first place

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Yeah, you don’t need to like actively unfriend and hate them, but the more time you spend with them the more you’ll be reminded what you liked about them, so you basically just have to stop seeing them and talking to them on a normal basis.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score

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