
I think #3 is saying it was a woman sharing intrusive unwanted thoughts & felt like a bad person for having them. It’s helpful context for most of us who have no idea what the post even said & are taking a stranger’s word for it. Not everything is an excuse, sometimes explanations are just explanations.
I wanted to be clear because thinking about something and actually doing it are SO different. It felt wrong for OP to phrase it like she was out there doing that to people and women praised her for it - it’s not like that at all. It’s still a weird thing to like, but it’s not hurting anyone so long as it’s just a thought.