no girl. respectfully, holding your hand while I say this, he don’t gaf about you. what if you got sick or you needed emotional support. or if you got pregnant. do you trust him to be the one to be there for you during that? he very likely dgaf about you and would move on to the next lay as soon as you wouldn’t / couldn’t give him what he really wants
I was talking to this guy about sex and he decided he wanted to crack it so bad. kept trying to convince me to meet up. and I was like no I don’t hookup, I only have sex with people I’m dating. and he went on and on promising me like “we’ll go on dates. I’ll take you to dinner” he didn’t actually want to date me. he was just promising me a date bc he expected sex as payment for dinner