Ask Men on Yik Yak | Straight women who hate men tend to have the best husbands/boyfriends, bc they've seen first hand the good, men are capable of and know that the rest don't care to apply themselves. Have you noticed this too?

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Straight women who hate men tend to have the best husbands/boyfriends, bc they've seen first hand the good, men are capable of and know that the rest don't care to apply themselves. Have you noticed this too?

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Anonymous 2w

No I’ve noticed that the women that “hate men” all the time have hard times forming strong relationships with men because they demonize them in their head

Anonymous 2w

Idk anyone that actually says they hate men irl tbh, there can be good and bad men though for sure

Anonymous 2w

Op you're clearly delusional, you hate an entire gender for no reason (your lived experience doesn't mean diddly-shit, sorry. There's over 4 billion men on this planet) and now you're expecting the men here to say: YES! i AM an evil POS thank you for curing me! Perhaps men aren't good to you because you hate them automatically. How about this: women are lying, manipulating parasites that only use guys for attention and free food. Thats what i've seen on tiktok so its def true. Get a grip.

Anonymous 2w

Ahhh yes time to get a good relationship with a woman by hating women. 👍

Anonymous 2w

I mean it’s true tho, my sister was in a emotionally abusive relationship in highschool where she was also pressured into sex and taken advantage of. Going through something like that that can make you much more perceptive into which men are good and worthwhile and which are shit. It just happens to be that women who “hate men” or are uneasy about men are more likely to have been victim of violent crime perpetrated by men. And going through that makes these women a lot more cautious when picking

Anonymous 2w

Yeah no they just abuse their husbands into obeying their every word and being too scared to leave

Anonymous

#1 2w

or they just don't put with shitty men and leave after the first red flag. Women don't have to "demonize" men in their heads. The statistics, stories and personal experiences already do that.

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Anonymous

OP 2w

Nah but these women do demonize men lowkey. Idgaf it’s not my problem what they think but from what I’ve seen it’s doesn’t lead to the kind of success with men that ur fantasizing about

Anonymous

#1 2w

i'm not fantasizing about it 😭 i came to this conclusion based on observations, which is why i asked if men have noticed. A example that supports this theory is Drew Afualo. She literally got her internet fame from hating on men, yet is in a happy 8 year long relationship with a man.

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Anonymous

OP 2w

and it's like one of the few "celebrity" relationships i think is genuine. he really doesn't even have an online presence, at least not as popular as hers

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Anonymous

#1 2w

and my point is that these women love themselves enough outside of a man, that they are waiting for the right one

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Anonymous

OP 2w

Hate is never a good way to find love. Just saying. It might have worked for Drew, but that’s the exception not the rule. Loving urself and valuing urself without relying on men’s attention is a great thing but ppl that “hate men” don’t do that. I’m telling u that those conclusions are wrong based on my observations, and most men would agree.

Anonymous

#1 2w

Drew isn't an exception, she's the most popular example I could think of that you would recognize. My own mother would be included in this too, and she and my father have been happily married for 31 years, and THEY thought me that every awful thing in the world could be traced back to a man. That men are inherently evil, but some (like my father) are self aware enough to break out of that generalization and understand that being with a women is a privilege.

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Anonymous

#2 2w

i assume every man hates women unless proven otherwise.

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Anonymous

OP 2w

See that’s ur problem ur projecting that hateful worldview onto everyone else.

Anonymous

OP 2w

Why even date men at that point?

Anonymous

OP 2w

Pick me ahh father. Tell me does hating a group of people and blaming all the worlds problems on them make u feel good? Lord knows that that never ends well in the past.

Anonymous

OP 2w

She is the excpection it worked out for her in spite of that not because of it.

Anonymous

#2 2w

bc i'm attracted to men and I know that men have the capability to be a good person, most just don't bother to try. my father thought me to never settle, and i should be with a man who has earn the privilege of being in a relationship with me. otherwise men are going to break my heart and/or take advantage of me.

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Anonymous

OP 2w

You can have those standards without hating men

Anonymous

#1 2w

It's kept me safe 🤷‍♀️. I've never been in a situation where a man has put me in danger. Should a gazelle not blame the lion for the death of their own? Should they trust that the lion wouldn't kill them if presented with the opportunity?

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Anonymous

#2 2w

and i'll stop hating men, when they stop hurting women.

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Anonymous

OP 2w

What’s your opinion on over half of all white women voting republican?

Anonymous

#2 2w

they prioritize pleasing the men in their lives over their own well being, or they hate themselves

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Anonymous

OP 2w

Never leaving ur house for fear of getting hit by a car keeps u safe yet we would all agree that’s an absurd thing to do. 😭

Anonymous

OP 2w

What about them hurting women with their policies?

Anonymous

#2 2w

i feel like my answer still stands. They hate themselves or prioritize the satisfaction of men

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Anonymous

OP 2w

No, how do you feel about them as a person? Do you love them or no?

Anonymous

#1 2w

i never said i don't talk to men. i don't trust men and i certainly don't believe that a man will see me as their equal. i've been in plenty of relationships with this mentality and it again has kept me safe.

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Anonymous

#2 2w

i'm not sure i understand the question

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Anonymous

OP 2w

Do you hate them?

Anonymous

#2 2w

i feel sorry for them

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Anonymous

OP 2w

Your parents agreeing that the patriarchy exists is not even close to the same thing as hating men though? none of what you’ve said even makes sense as evidence.

Anonymous

#5 2w

“Hate men” is really strong tho, I don’t think women actually hate all men. I like they are cautious of all men which is completely valid

Anonymous

#6 2w

And dont call me a misogynist or "thanks for proving my point🤓" you're entire argument is that men are inherently bad people and only if they work really really hard can they can be "worthy" of a woman. There are PLENTY of examples of women doing the things you claim only men do. People suck, dating sucks, make a hot friend and marry them but dont come on here and start spitting in our faces expecting a thank you.

Anonymous 2w

my dad is straight vibing lol, think what u want tho 😭

Anonymous

#5 2w

Anonymous

#5 2w

Be traumatized all you want but dont be a liar, OP's argument is that ALL men are evil predators unless they can prove themselves worthy/ one of the good ones.

Anonymous

#6 2w

I’m not agreeing with op