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there is a tik tok going around of a man saying "women cannot handle men baddies" and im like isn't that bc a man baddie is a gay man? like? what does he mean
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Anonymous 1w

I’m pretty sure they mean like guys that all the girls want. Girls can’t handle not being the first choice.

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Anonymous 1w

No it means a man that gives the same energy back to people who say like “I don’t need no man” or whatever

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Anonymous 1w

This is the first definition on urban dictionary. The term originated within AAVE and has roots going deep into black culture. So you're just wrong. As she's confident Kamala, doesn't fit the aesthetic therefore she isn't a baddie. Men can be confident and of course they can also fit into the aesthetic like Lil Nas X or RuPaul and other gay men and drag queens. That's what would make them a baddie. What you're talking abt is just confident, self assured people! i hope this helps!

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Anonymous 1w

Nope

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

that's not what being a baddie is tho? i've always considered it as someone who is always glammed up, and has their hair done, and wears designer clothes usually tight fitting and revealing. being confident and self assertive are just normal personality traits

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

interesting it was just phrased weird, why not say women can't handle being the first choice? also not everyone wants a baddie like most of the time they r pretty ghetto

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

It’s basically the same thing. Men baddies are men that all the girls want, and if all the girls are fighting for them, they don’t need to choose one. They can choose any one they want at any time

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

IMO from what I’ve seen irs referring to the men that women call “sassy”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i've always considered being a baddie ti be more of a specific style and make up not really personality type, like imo a man baddie is like a drag queen or james charles. not just a confident man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

my definition of a baddie is more style / appearance based than like attitude or personality based, like what i said to #1. an example of women i think r baddies r like meagn thee stallion or cardi b like that whole aesthetic with the long nails and big hoops. so like imo a man baddie is like a gay man lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I mean YOU can consider what u want. The trend online is about “sassy” men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

dawg it's not just me and its not really a trend the only reason im asking is bc i got a video reaction from another man mind saying that he's using the wrong terminology and whole video is just embarrassing and its still unclear on what he actually meant by that bc when he "explained" it he literally just described a man that gets a manis pedis 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

to me baddie is more personality-based. Megan and cardi for example have very distinct, independent and unapologetically sassy personalities. Their style reflects that, but being a baddie is more of a combination of the two ig

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

like being a baddie is not the same as just being sassy and confident. the look and style plays a lot into it. usually men who are straight aren't walking around wearing four inches heels and lashes and twerking on random guys in the club. unless that's what u do then forgive me i was unaware of ur gamw

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

Baddie is a state of mind or smth

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i don't really think it's a combination tho bc if that was the case then most famous women would be considered baddies like hell Kamala Harris would be considered a baddie bc she's confident and independent has a distinct personality. However, her and Cardi B have very different styles so Kamala imo isn't a baddie

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

imo she is. see being a baddie is style-dependent to you, its not to me. Like a random person dressed in supposed “baddie attire” in a club is not automatically a baddie if they doesn’t have the personality to match. The style is a manifestation of their confidence and they go hand-in-hand

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i replied in a separate comment

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

thanks for clarifying that you mean the official definition of a baddie and not your own, like you previously mentioned

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