I think it’s relevant to the person. Body count doesn’t mean to much but it is a reflection of the type of relationship you are looking for the values that you have held and how consistent with them you’ve been. I think you should just look for somebody with similar experience to you and that will work best.
First year of college me and my buddies had a couple dorm rooms across from a group of girls. They all wouls come over with bfs and stuff and hang out and play cards. The single one one day walks in (door was mostly left open while we were there) and exclaims guys i just hit double digits!!! We were like what