If he asked you to coffee he doesn’t think you’re fat, or at the absolute least doesn’t care.

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Like #3 said, if he asked you out, he already thinks you’re attractive. He may genuinely see you as thicc and curvy rather than fat.

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No ur overthinking

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Not at all. The worst thing that could happen is that he doesn’t want to go on a second date - there’s no penalty for trying. In all likelihood he’ll probably worry more about he’s coming off than you. It’s important that you keep going on dates so that you build security and comfort - those things are necessary when you are actually in a relationship

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Go for it. Just remember you’re you. If they don’t appreciate you, they don’t deserve your time.

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Real men love chub

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No and get over yourself. You will be fine either way. Your value isn’t determined by outside forces.

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no you shouldn’t be worried. Even if he thinks you’re fat, it’s no big deal he just wasn’t the one for you. And if he’s asked you out he’s already attracted to you in some way. You got thisssss <3

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You’re fine. Don’t worry about it

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If that doesn’t work out I’ll take you out instead haha

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