Anonymous oranguru 7w

Maybe more salient: what beliefs do you have about men/ yourself that prevent you from successfully dating ?

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Anonymous oranguru 7w

I don’t have any

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Anonymous #2 7w

You’re right 🤔, maybe mental health is draining me ? Is that what u mean?

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Anonymous OP 7w

If you don’t have the characteristics of a cel why do you want that title?

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Anonymous #3 7w

What are characteristics of a femcel

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Anonymous OP 7w

Hating men, wanting men but not being able to get with men, etc

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Anonymous #3 7w

I don’t hate men I just don’t get any

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Anonymous OP 7w

Do you approach men? Do you use dating apps?

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Anonymous #3 7w

The women that I see doesn’t have to go this route , but the fact that I do proves my point

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Anonymous OP 7w

What’s wrong with approaching people and using dating apps? Dating apps are the main way people meet nowadays.

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Anonymous #3 7w

Not necessarily I see guys flirting with women in person all the time

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Anonymous OP 7w

All the time? You can ask the guys here and they rarely approach women.

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Anonymous #3 7w

Because they’re incels

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Anonymous OP 7w

Ok you’re just ragebaiting have fun

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Anonymous #3 7w

No I’m not 😭

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Anonymous OP 7w

Men flirt with women in person ALL the time it’s always been this way and clearly I’m an incel

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Anonymous OP 7w

Femcel you mean?

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Anonymous #3 7w

Yes

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Anonymous OP 7w

There’s an interesting video by BoopCreate about femcels you should watch it

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Anonymous #3 7w

She basically talks about how being a femcel has become a tiktok trend and has been aestheticized

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Anonymous #3 7w

But I don’t hate men I just want a guy to like me

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Anonymous OP 7w

Then you’re not a femcel you just have bad luck in dating

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Anonymous #3 7w

No because I don’t date. So I’m a femcel

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Anonymous OP 7w

I haven’t been on a date in 2 years

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Anonymous OP 7w

So then you’re voluntarily celibate?

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Anonymous OP 7w

Life isn’t fair. You can’t just lie down and give up on something when you see others getting that thing more easily

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Anonymous #3 7w

I’m not because no one wants sex with me. ( I don’t want sex tho😂)

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Anonymous oranguru 7w

So what to do?

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Anonymous OP 7w

You have to be ragebaiting because that’s voluntarily celibacy

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Anonymous OP 7w

Find digital or in person spaces where you can meet more men and ask them out

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Anonymous #3 7w

No it’s not. If no guy approaches me for sex then I don’t have options?

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Anonymous OP 7w

But you said you don’t want it tho?

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Anonymous #3 7w

But I’m still not getting guys that want it ?

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Anonymous OP 7w

So it’s involuntary. That means women with multiple guys to sleep with, I have none

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Anonymous OP 7w

I’m genuinely confused, why would you want guys who want sex if you’re not interested in sex?

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Anonymous #3 7w

To prove that I’m desirable and not unattractive

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Anonymous OP 7w

I bet there are guys who’d have sex with you

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Anonymous #3 7w

I haven’t been asked for my number since June ‘24

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Anonymous OP 7w

You don’t need to wait for society or men at large to regard you as desirable, you can work directly to make yourself into a desirable person

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Anonymous OP 7w

And I haven’t ever been asked for my number

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Anonymous #3 7w

Are you invalidating my feelings

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Anonymous OP 7w

What are your feelings ?

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Anonymous OP 7w

I’m trying not to but I’m trying to show you that not being asked out in 22 days does not mean you’re unattractive.

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Anonymous #3 7w

2 years

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Anonymous OP 7w

Ok? Not being asked out in two years doesn’t mean you’re unattractive either. Most of the guys here don’t ask out women they find attractive and to be honest with you I mostly don’t either.

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