Ask Men on Yik Yak | how do i approach and talk to guys??? i’m very introverted and won’t really speak unless i’m spoken to but i reallyyyy want to change that.

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Ask Men 4w

how do i approach and talk to guys??? i’m very introverted and won’t really speak unless i’m spoken to but i reallyyyy want to change that.

Anonymous 4w

As a fellow introvert, just gotta bite that bullet and force yourself to speak to them and feign confidence as much as you can. Eventually you won’t be feigning anymore and talking to new people won’t feel as intimidating

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Anonymous 4w

Consider finding something to ask them about like something on their backpack or maybe a pin or hat

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Anonymous 4w

I’d say you just talk with them or get adopted by an extrovert to do the hard part for you

Anonymous 3w

Smile and wave them over

Anonymous 3w

We want to be talked to too! Just ask about hobbies and other things you can relate to until you find something in common

Anonymous

#1 4w

Giving a quick compliment on something and being direct about why you came up to them helps too. Good luck!

Anonymous

#1 4w

Yeah. This is the best advice. I know it sounds like “just jump 30 ft” when you hear it said, but the act of speaking is quite easy, and all your roadblocks are mental. The easiest way to do it is just to do it