
I mean, how would you feel if a guy pretended to care about your interests or in you as a person more generally in order for you to let him crack? Don’t women complain about guys doing that to them all the time? If you just want sex and not to listen or get to know about him as a person be upfront about it. I’d respect you a lot more for being direct and upfront with what you want than faking interest in something and misleading a guy in order to fuck him.
that’s true it goes both ways people, myself included, should be more honest. ig i have the old mentality that guys only want sex, so i sometimes don’t think they care beyond that. also the guys i hook up with are known to sleep around so i felt like they should know why im there