Ask Men on Yik Yak | Not even being a pick me, I’ve been thinking about dating from a guy’s perspective. I know girls, including me, ghost or unmatch without explanation, and I can’t imagine how confusing or discouraging that must feel for men.

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Not even being a pick me, I’ve been thinking about dating from a guy’s perspective. I know girls, including me, ghost or unmatch without explanation, and I can’t imagine how confusing or discouraging that must feel for men.

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Anonymous 5w

I don’t think it’s being a pick me to have empathy

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Anonymous 5w

Crazy that acknowledging that men have emotions is pick me now

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Anonymous 5w

that’s called empathy

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Anonymous 5w

Obviously men do it too but I’ve never had it happen to me so like not sure how I would feel abt it

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Anonymous 5w

it goes both ways tbh. it’s just called empathy, friend 😭

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Anonymous 5w

Asked for a girls number the other day after we hit it off on hinge and she just unadded me

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Anonymous 5w

I’m not trying to be rude or anything but.. literally no shit??

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Anonymous 5w

This post kills me😭

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Anonymous 5w

If you’re getting ghosted before you make it off the app, you have no reason to feel sad about it 💀

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Anonymous

#5 5w

it happens, just gotta shake it off and move on

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Anonymous

OP 5w

I get kind of pissed off, then I send a wall of text and it usually works somehow.

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Anonymous

OP 5w

If I match I’d say there’s like a 70% chance my first message doesn’t work unless I’m drunk and then it’s like a 80% chance of working. But I’m sober now, so I just pick myself back up and try again, with the same person because I refuse to swipe unless I’m sure it’s not going to work and then I unadd, but I send like four paragraphs, and usually they respond within a day.

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Anonymous

#1 5w

Sad as that is, it very much IS. But personally, I’d pick her every time.

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Anonymous

#7 5w

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