Anonymous #5 6w

No lol. My guy friends agreed to that

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Anonymous #5 6w

Plus, I said that to another guy and he agreed

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Anonymous OP 6w

I didn’t know your guy friends were the Hitler Youth

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Anonymous #9 6w

I’m a black woman too but 90% they’re not looking for anything serious and only want to get in your pants btw

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Anonymous OP 6w

well i know that ofc, but that's an entirely different conversation. if a guy is willing to sleep with you then he's at least attracted to you, you just aren't his preference. you have to find the ones who prefer to black women. ik it's easier said than done lol.

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Anonymous #9 6w

I have plenty of white guys attracted to me and slept with me. I want something serious tho but black women usually aren’t the first choice.

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Anonymous OP 6w

men have different standards for sleeping and dating. your situation tho could be due to internalized racism. some white men just aren't willing to have a black girlfriend. either due the social stigma, their family might not be accepting, they believe stereotypes, or just don't wanna take the risk.

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Anonymous #9 6w

Are you saying I have internalized racism

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Anonymous OP 6w

no the white men who will sleep with u but won't date or commit do

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Anonymous #9 6w

Oh yea that’s definitely what I have come to the realization that it is

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Anonymous OP 6w

like the harsh truth is there is a risk when it comes to dating outside of your race. it's just the reality we live in. its gotten way better but interracial couples used to be really rare, its still rare imo for an interracial couple to be black women / white man.

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Anonymous #10 6w

Exactly

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Anonymous #4 6w

same here. black, brunette, blonde, blue, pink, you name it.

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Anonymous #4 6w

also funny enough most polls here on this app prefer brunette

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Anonymous #15 6w

This is a fair point. I mentioned that I get hit on a lot less now with my black hair than I did with blonde, but what I also changed was not straightening my hair anymore. I’m white but I have pretty curly hair, and I’ve noticed women love curls a lot more than men do, for the most part anyway.

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Anonymous #10 6w

Yeah I’m rarely noticed if my hair is anything but Eurocentric or straight. So it’s not like OP is wrong. The ppl saying I don’t or not me are just being oblivious to the point. It’s been studied that white men typically lean towards blondes. White blondes at that 😭

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Anonymous #10 6w

Real! I started wearing my curls out this summer cause of the heat and I get approached way less lol

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Anonymous inphochewated 6w

I am actually

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Anonymous #16 6w

I only get them💀

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Anonymous #12 6w

Good job for pulling a queen

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Anonymous OP 6w

I looove curls, rock that shit girl!

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Anonymous #15 6w

Exactly what I’m saying, “not me” but the data is there 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #10 6w

It may not be them but I mean it can’t be denied that they don’t like blondes at all. I got so many compliments when my hair was straight and so much attention…idk why I don’t get the same when my hair is in my curly state or like braids or something. I wish though bc I love my protective styling

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