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So hypothetically if I’ve gone on two dates with two guys and I like both for different reasons, but i definitely like one of them more and connected more, how do I let the other guy down? Especially when I know he definitely, really likes me
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Anonymous 1d

I know it sucks, but the kindest thing you can do in my opinion is be really honest and tell him you don't think you all should keep dating. The closure can be helpful in both of you moving on. It lets you be able to enjoy trying to date the guy you really like, and it gives him the chance to try to move on Sorry this is going on, but I'm happy you met someone you like and wish you all the best

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

No thank you so much, I am definitely going to cut things off and be honest with him, he genuinely deserves the best & I do think he’s an amazing person, he was very very gentlemanly and such, but idk I just. The other guy man. I feel so bad about it but he doesn’t deserve to get ghosted and doesn’t deserve to have his feelings hurt but idk, it’s better to tell him than to ghost him for sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I honestly haven’t even had my second date with the guy I really liked, it’s tomorrow & we set it up *during* our first date, this guy I just had the second date with I genuinely just wanted to give a second chance because our first date was just okay yknow, it was a double date so it was hard to connect so I felt like it deserved some one on one time, and after that idk, I just think I like the other guy more even though we only had the one good date so far.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I’m gonna decide more tomorrow for sure, after my second date with the guy I like a bit more, if that goes well I’m definitely going to focus my time and energy on the guy I like

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 23h

No problem at all! Was happy to share some advice, and I'm glad you got to meet two wonderful people and that you found someone you wanna get to know even more. In terms of the second guy, you don't have to cut him off unless you both want that! If you all are cool being friends, there's nothing wrong with that. As long as you're being transparent you don't feel the same about dating him, that's what's important since it'll help you both move on

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