Anonymous #1 3w

i mean the video makes it clear imo that if you're chopped period it's bad but i do think chopped women have it slightly worse. i've never seen a couple where the women was the lesser attractive of the two, but i think it's less common in general for a women to be truly chopped.

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Anonymous #4 3w

honestly like if she lost some weight and styled her hair better, she wouldn't be that bad. however i see what you're saying

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Anonymous #5 3w

yeah, i think that's it too. it's also just a lot of men can't become emotionally attracted to someone they aren't physically attracted too. women are different and sometimes non physical traits abt a man make him more or less attractive

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Anonymous sea_taco 3w

why do you think this?

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Anonymous OP 3w

You’ve never *seen* it because it’s never public. It’s always a situationship or some shit

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Anonymous OP 3w

That’s not a woman brain vs man brain thing, that’s a socialized thing of not seeing people as people because you don’t actively find them super attractive. And also because of what we are socially taught is normal and attractive for women is so artificial that it can’t be easily replicated (like hairless and smooth perfect skin and thick always styled hair and super dark eyelashes and makeup that guys don’t think it makeup and thin but thick, all taking hours of our day to do regularly)

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Anonymous OP 3w

Idk I don’t even think it’s worse for men necessarily, it’s a case by case situation

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Anonymous OP 3w

The unrealistic standards for men physically is mainly just height. Other standards like low body fat and huge muscles is for other men and not women (since majority of women aren’t into the body builder type) so for men it’s really just “please shower and wash your face with something other than a 3 in 1 and try to dress decent” and suddenly they are a 6/10 and with a decent personality could land a nice girl (of course this is excluding men 5’6 and below as dating is much harder then)

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Anonymous #7 3w

What I doing wrong then 😭

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Anonymous #2 3w

Here’s questions to ask yourself: 1. Do you regularly interact with women casually and are you friends with many? (If yes, good sign that you aren’t coming off as creepy or reclusive. If no, then try getting into more casual social situations like through school clubs!) 2. If you’ve talked to girls trying to start a relationship, at what point did things fall apart? (Was it because of a fight or just no spark? Or literally zero idea?)

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Anonymous #2 3w

3. Do you dress decently? (Not the same five shirts, sweatshirts, and pants cycled through. Like actually putting thought into what makes you look nice and how to style your clothes) 4. Is there something off putting? (Like a strong smell, dying/missing tooth, tattoo of an ex, confederate flag bumper sticker, etc.) 5. What are the kind of women you are around? (Are they someone you would trust their judge of character? If not, don’t worry about what they think of you)

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Anonymous #7 3w

I suppose my first problem is that I am a reclusive insomniac with no concept of work-life balance and a face card cut from a 400 year old painting about grief lol

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Anonymous sea_taco 3w

Okay but paintings about grief are so ethereal imo ✨

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Anonymous sea_taco 3w

I would say the reclusive part is the biggest issue, sounds more like you should learn to live your life first and then try to find a woman to date

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Anonymous #7 3w

A girl who had a crush on me once called me that, maybe I should lean into it idk

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Anonymous #7 3w

Yeah no kidding lmao

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Anonymous sea_taco 3w

Lmao I love that so much. Old grief paintings always had the best skin with super expressive faces, so honestly take it as a compliment for sure

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Anonymous #7 3w

Thanks for giving me some clarity, I think my brain will let me sleep now

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Anonymous sea_taco 3w

lol good night

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Anonymous #7 3w

Probably just the interaction part, I have women friends who I love (platonically) but most of them I’ve met through other friends. I just have trouble socializing tbh

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Anonymous sea_taco 2w

i think like i said in a different comment it's just more common for men to be chopped than it is for women, but i think it's just because the beauty/attractiveness standards for women are higher than they are for men, and like the video says i think men can have non-physical attractive traits that outweigh their physical traits, but when it comes to women not so much.

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Anonymous sea_taco 2w

like if you met the perfect women for you in every way possible except physically, like imagine she looked like comment #4's "exhibit a" would you date her?

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