
You’re in an interesting spot bc you’re not religious and waiting for marriage. Usually you get someone from one of these areas but it’s rare to have this overlap. That makes it harder unless you want to marry someone religious. Unfortunately you’re gonna have to be careful with incels and Andrew Tates of the world bc they will be drawn to you in a very predatory way.
Well then that can only mean two things, 1) you’re not putting yourself out there, or 2) it might be a looks issue. If you go to the right places, guys ask out women so much that they hate it, although the guys at those places tend to fucking suck, but the point is there is a metric fuck ton of demand for women and yes, even women like you. My advice is go meet guys at normal events or clubs or whatever, those tend to be the normal majority of guys and you can find common interests.