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Ask Men 7w
as a man, do you feel like there’s pressure for you to put forth the effort into planning dates and stuff with girls?
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Anonymous 7w

I’d say there’s definitely some pressure. I think most women expect the man to do so. Granted, I don’t think that’s a problem but there’s definitely some pressure there

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Anonymous 7w

I’ve been told by two women on hinge in the last week they expect the man to pay for and plan the first five dates. So yes, there’s 100% the expectation

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Anonymous 7w

Yes, but not as much as we’re told. There are mixed signals about it different women respond better to different things and overall the party line does seem to somewhat overstate the appeal of a nice date

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Anonymous 7w

If I don’t do it it’s not getting done typically

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

i would never expect for five dates haha interesting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

And with that being said, quite a few women don’t have the time in their schedule to date. A lot of them go on these dates expecting it to not go well

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