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Genuinely What’s the idea of having”figuring out my dating goals” in the profile of a dating app?
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Anonymous 5w

Sounds like “I don’t wanna commit to anything” to me

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Anonymous 5w

What? What don’t you understand? I mean the alternatives are all things so definite you shouldn’t really be able to make a ruling before you’ve met the person, so “figuring it out” is by far the most rational answer of the choices

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 5w

Ah thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Like does it mean they only wanna fuck?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Nobody ONLY wants to fuck. Whether they only want to fuck YOU is usually what varies. Bc idk you, I dont rlly know the answer to that. You could be my soulmate, a one night stand, anything in between, or nothing. Which is why it’s a good idea to put “still figuring it out” since it’s (almost) impossible to misinterpret and allows for the flexibility/uncertainty that’s realistically inherent in dating. Tbh I think “what are you looking for” is a stupid question & I’d leave it blank if I could

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

In other words, imo the only real answer that question ever has is: “Who cares what I’m looking for? That’s not going to make any difference. The real question is what have I FOUND?”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I still don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

I don’t even get what you don’t get. Not every man in the world wants to marry you. And you shouldn’t want to marry every man in the world. The whole point of dating is to figure out what you want to share with a given person and for how long. If a guy proposes before your first date, you should say no. EVERYONE who’s dating should be “still figuring it out”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Still don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

What you want to share???

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Have someone help you read this🫩

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