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Why do guys go after or date girls they arent “attracted to”? Like guys will say they love/need a blonde girl, with no tattoos, doesnt smoke, and can cook but they will date a girl that has black hair, tattoos, smokes a lot, and never cooks. Just why??
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Anonymous 15w

Because personality> physical features . A lot of what people want has nothing to do with what they actually get

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Anonymous 15w

🤷🏼 I only go after girls I’m attracted to

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Anonymous 15w

Ppl contradict themselves all the time and go more off vibes than some rules they made up for themselves

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Anonymous 15w

Because guys don’t know what they want. Girls are the same way.

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Anonymous 15w

Hair color isn’t relevant to me, but what I’ve seen on dating apps, most women’s putting themselves out there either have tattoos, smoke or have both. Smoking is a deal breaker for me, but no tattoos is just a preference.

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Anonymous 15w

i feel like it’s the exact opposite?? like in my experience, they’re actually (or perhaps lustfully) attracted to dark fem or alt/goth girls but end up dating the tan sec clean girl that they swore wasn’t their type

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Anonymous 15w

I told myself I wasn’t into blondes yet every woman ends up being blonde. Just happens

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Anonymous 15w

Because people can be attracted to more than one thing?

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 15w

Yea revealed preferences are different than stated preferences. Also people can like different characteristics in different women

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15w

It just means more

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Yep, I’d even go so far as to say, chemistry > personality. Legit seen people who have VERY different personalities, however they vibe so it’s on.

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