Anonymous #3 20w

What does that mean

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Anonymous OP 20w

I still approach women in terms of friendship or for help, but not for dating

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Anonymous #3 20w

Why

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Anonymous #4 20w

?

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Anonymous #12 20w

How so

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Anonymous vangogh 20w

Do you want to date tho? Bc if you do, that’s really the only way to do it

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Anonymous #14 20w

Why not

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Anonymous #15 20w

What risk? And there’s ways to go about it where it’s not viewed as creepy

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How would he even know if she told someone? And that’s what happens, doesn’t mean it’s mena natured

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I mean isn’t that life? I’ve been rejected too and it’s not the end of of the world.

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Anonymous OP 20w

How so? And the risk of being labeled weird or creepy, also the risk of losing someone who you could be friends with.

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But who is doing that so often? I’ve seen plenty of girls get slaked out, iv experienced it myself and if we’ve said no 9/10 times it’s been polite

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Anonymous OP 20w

It’s not for women, but for men if a women lies it can be devastating. A women could say a guy is harassing her after just saying he likes her and with no evidence still be believed.

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Like in front of everyone? Or

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I mean if a guy asked me out I’m gonna tell my friends later. Not anything malicious, just that I got asked out lmao

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Anonymous OP 20w

Many reasons. The main two being that most women are in relationships. And those who aren’t don’t want a guy like me.

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Anonymous #14 20w

I feel like a lot of girls are still single. I am. And what’s a guy like you

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Anonymous OP 20w

no it's not the only way to do it, and i am actually dating someone. we met through a friend and naturally warmed up to eachother, there was no "approaching" involved

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Anonymous OP 20w

Not conventionally attractive

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Anonymous vangogh 20w

I mean maybe? I don’t really have any girl friends who have guy friends so that’s not really an option

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Anonymous OP 20w

then get involved in some school clubs or public events, proximity to other people in a social setting helps if you're looking for that kind of thing

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Anonymous vangogh 20w

I’m graduated, so that’s doesn’t work for me. Trying to move

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Anonymous vangogh 20w

I agree i think being friends first is probably the best way to to go. Worst comes to worst yoy have a new friend :)

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Anonymous #5 20w

then is it okay if a girl approaches you first? Or is that weird to you guys

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Anonymous #16 20w

I would be ok with it. I understand that women are fearful of men harming them. I do not typically have thay fear even tho I have had bad past experiences.

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Anonymous #16 20w

I would be overjoyed if a girl approached me, I’d have my guard up for sure but that would probably make me more confident in myself and I’d definitely go out with any girl who takes has the balls to ask me out

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Anonymous OP 20w

The “no” might be polite but when you go and tell everyone and their mother about it and make the guy out to be insane for even considering asking you out it’s just not worth it

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Anonymous OP 20w

You might not be malicious but your friends might be to the guy

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Anonymous #15 20w

I’m telling my friends, they won’t even know the guy lmao

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Anonymous OP 20w

public events

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Anonymous vangogh 20w

Yeah, my area sucks so I’m trying to move to find more social events. Lol

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