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Ask Men 13w
if your gf told you that your friend touched her inappropriately but your friend denied it, what would you do?
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Anonymous 13w

I would THOROUGHLY investigate the matter like a murder case. But generally, we believe women

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Anonymous 13w

It would be a VERY thorough investigation bc none of my friends are like that at all but also my girl would never lie to me abt something like that so I’d have to do digging to see if there was maybe some substances they shouldn’t have had, or if there’s something they’re omitting from the story

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Anonymous 13w

Depends honestly. This doesnt just happen. Normally warning flags from either my friend or my gf. For example if i know they got beef for some reason im not sure id trust her. If my friend was known for being handsy then id probably trust her but id look into both situations deeply

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

assuming there was no proof either way, would you stay friends with him?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

There has to be some context for this. Both sides have a story. I’d need to hear them to understand how to approach it. It also depends on how close of friends we were. My truly good friends would never do this. It would have to be a misunderstanding or something because they know I’d absolutely throw hands if they really groped my gf

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

i get that it’s situational lol sorry about all the questions, i’m just trying to reconcile a situation by trying to understand the other perspective. would you be chill with it if she requested that he not be around anymore when she is?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

If he truly groped her intentionally and inappropriately, I would not be friends with him anymore at all. I would not feel comfortable with a situation where I have to believe both people, ie him and I stay friends but I keep him from seeing her. It either happened or it didn’t or there’s another explanation

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