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If you want to date, are you going up to girls? I still want them to come up to me, I approach sometimes but I’d rather the guy come up
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Anonymous 4d

No because I get mean looks just for not being a certain color on campus

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Anonymous 4d

We all want someone to come to us. That’s fine for women because if you’re decent looking you’ll get approached all the time, but for us men not so much. I’m not attractive so no I don’t, but I realize if I ever want to so much as hold hands with a woman I’ll have to do something about it at some point

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Anonymous 4d

Tbh it doesn’t really feel worth it to go up to a stranger to ask her out just bc she’s pretty, like there’s such a minuscule chance that I’ll end up interested in her personality wise that like I’d rather find them spontaneously yk? And like yeah I guess for a hook up or fwb or something it would be good but I don’t care enough about sex for that

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Anonymous 4d

No, why would I want to risk making a woman uncomfortable?

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Anonymous 4d

I do lot approach women because I’m Not conventionally attractive and I don’t want to be perceived at creepy

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Anonymous 4d

Why the fuck would I approach, that's her job

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I don’t get approached as often and I’m attractive. Bc now a lot of guys are scared

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

What race are you? I’m not fully white

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I mean unless you’re interested idk what I’d add to this convo by telling you 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I mean I’m wondering bc where are you? Most of the time it doesn’t matter

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I think it also depends on where you’re going. We know it’s a bad idea to ask in class or work or on the streets, but in social settings women complain about getting approached too much, so maybe try there

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I go to a school where the majority of students are from the most liberal parts of the country it quite literally doesn’t matter lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Yeah. I need a better location, my area doesn’t really have that. I’m out of school now and don’t work with the public

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

If I’m getting a nasty look for walking to class why tf am I going to approach such people to ask for a number

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

Damn I’m just wondering. My bad 🙄

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

okay but then don't complain when her dick is bigger 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Do u use apps?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

So do you date?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

Ah ok. I just dk what to do or how to Appel to guys who do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Go on dating apps

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4d

I hate them. I’ve tried them, and the guys have always been odd. I do better seeing them in person and checking out their vibe

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4d
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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

This is what’s wrong with dating in this generation

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

I feel like Ik why you get mean looks

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