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If you want to date, are you going up to girls? I still want them to come up to me, I approach sometimes but I’d rather the guy come up
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Anonymous 10w

We all want someone to come to us. That’s fine for women because if you’re decent looking you’ll get approached all the time, but for us men not so much. I’m not attractive so no I don’t, but I realize if I ever want to so much as hold hands with a woman I’ll have to do something about it at some point

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Anonymous 10w

Tbh it doesn’t really feel worth it to go up to a stranger to ask her out just bc she’s pretty, like there’s such a minuscule chance that I’ll end up interested in her personality wise that like I’d rather find them spontaneously yk? And like yeah I guess for a hook up or fwb or something it would be good but I don’t care enough about sex for that

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Anonymous 10w

No, why would I want to risk making a woman uncomfortable?

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Anonymous 10w

I do lot approach women because I’m Not conventionally attractive and I don’t want to be perceived at creepy

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Anonymous 10w

Why the fuck would I approach, that's her job

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I don’t get approached as often and I’m attractive. Bc now a lot of guys are scared

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

I think it also depends on where you’re going. We know it’s a bad idea to ask in class or work or on the streets, but in social settings women complain about getting approached too much, so maybe try there

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yeah. I need a better location, my area doesn’t really have that. I’m out of school now and don’t work with the public

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

okay but then don't complain when her dick is bigger 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Do u use apps?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

So do you date?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Ah ok. I just dk what to do or how to Appel to guys who do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

Go on dating apps

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

I hate them. I’ve tried them, and the guys have always been odd. I do better seeing them in person and checking out their vibe

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 10w
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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

This is what’s wrong with dating in this generation

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