I have before. Won't do it again. I really didn't like the confused feeling when she was (jokingly) sexually touching her friend back and forth while I was in the room. Nothing against her sexuality, I just find that I love women more that exclusively like men because they like me more.
Yeah, we talked about it and she didn't see the problem after which was unfortunate. It's emotionally confusing cuz if she was straight, I wouldn't care because I know she wouldn't 'enjoy' doing that for pleasure. But given that she was into that, it's like... how should I react? It's definitely a respect thing, but it just turned me off to bisexual girls.
I totally understand that, I dated my bf for a year before he came out to me as bi. It wasn’t a big deal…. But the entire time I’ve known him he’s been making overly gay jokes and slapping dudes butts/fake kissing them etc. So it really did confuse me as to what was actually a joke and what wasn’t 😕. He insured me he wasn’t attracted to the men he joked with but…