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Ask Men 7w

Do you feel comfortable approaching girls you find attractive for their number? If not why, and please serious answers only I’m very curious.

Anonymous 7w

Not at all. I’m quite anxious about rejection. The worst that could happen isn’t just them saying “no” — my best friend had a woman call him ugly for asking. Women can show lots of disgust in their response. Respectful people are very rare. So I don’t ask. It is the duty of a girl to show clear green lights to be asked out

Anonymous 7w

Comfortable? Yeah Will I do it? Fuck no

Anonymous 7w

Nope, I always feel like the bottom guy in this meme, and would rather not deal with those consequences of someone saying I harassed them.

Anonymous 7w

Not necessarily comfortable considering it’s always nerve wracking, but you don’t have to overthink it. Quick and simple, in and out, don’t try to drag the conversation on. “Hey how’s it going, I’m ___, just wanted to say I think you’re really pretty and I was wondering if I could get your number”

Anonymous 7w

No, I need to get to know ppl and their background before l'd ask for their number, being physically attracted to them isn't exactly enough quality data to make a decision off of

Anonymous 7w

Statistics say that the top 20% of men have sex with 80% of women. I know am not in the top 20% of men. I have a great personality, I'm rich AF, I have jokes that will leave you with bruised ribs, but can't make it past the window shopping phase cuz I'm fat, and all the apps suck. So at what point does fighting for attention begin to feel like screaming into the void. If a woman wants me she can come and find me.

Anonymous 7w

My gf super nervous. I was a total geek in highschool. Thought it smoothly do it by inviting her to a minecraft server (she joined) then went hey if you wanna talk while we play heres my discord (she accepted the friend req) then went if you have any questions heres my number (you can point and laugh… but where is your gf)

Anonymous 7w

Absolutely not. I’m nowhere near attractive enough for that. Plus there’s no chance anyone I find attractive is gonna be single.

Anonymous 7w

Most guys aren’t comfortable making an approach. The biggest growing reason is the fear of rejection and bc of it you get guys not being able to be themselves enough to properly lead the conversation into something more

Anonymous 7w

I actually do occasionally ask girls I think are attractive for their number (as well as other people who I just want to be their friend) but the success rate of them actually texting is next to none sadly, am still keeping an eye out for the one girl I can finally fall for though

Anonymous 7w

No, definitely not. I’m pretty sure 99% of women are way out of my league. I’m also aware that I am definitely not what a lot of women are looking for in a man

Anonymous 7w

I mostly just want to be their friend

Anonymous 7w

No. But I usually try to get over it and do it anyway. Whether I do usually depends on whether I can think of anything to make small talk about in that moment

Anonymous 7w

No. I think the other comments explain it

Anonymous 7w

No. I fear making her uncomfortable!

Anonymous 7w

No bc I don’t want to be embarrassed, I’ve seen too many people get clowned for asking someone out in person and I always have a fear that I’ll be next.

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Anonymous 7w

Hell no

Anonymous 7w

My body and mind won’t let me

Anonymous

#1 7w

Yea maybe I worded that wrong but a lot of men seem to have some deep rooted fears of approaching women. it’s normal that it’s uncomfortable.

Anonymous

OP 7w

It can be terrifying, there’s the fear of rejection or public humiliation which are perfectly normal. But you just gotta get up and send it

Anonymous

#1 7w

I agree and to your first response yes that’s all it takes. Some people definitely over think it and that’s the issue I believe to be a leading cause.

Anonymous

#15 7w

Bro stop complaining and go workout. Go work on your body and your personality. Its not their fault you decided to get fat and physically unatractive.

Anonymous

#15 7w

Yeah dude I’m sorry but the wording of this comment makes me think there are some much deeper issues

Anonymous

freestyle 7w

That doesn’t really make sense though. If you’re comfortable, why else wouldn’t you do it?

Anonymous

#1 7w

Oh it’s issues the whole way down, probably healthy that I’m not out looking for relationships 🤷‍♂️

Anonymous

#19 7w

Never hurts to ask instead of making the assumption that they're not single

Anonymous

#21 7w

If you want me to be 100% honest I don’t see a single reason that a girl over the age of 18 would be single in 2025

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Anonymous

#9 7w

Women “you can be lovable at any size!! Don’t let patriarchy define your beauty!!!” Men “stop complaining and go work out. It’s not their fault you’ve decided to be fat and ugly”

Anonymous

#19 7w

Delusional mindset lmao there are women who are virgins at 25

Anonymous

#11 7w

Same here. I’ve been through the “too scared to ask” phase and the “ask her YOLO” phase and it’s simply not worth it. The chances of her actually texting me are like less than 5%. She’s more likely to get upset and uncomfortable while pretending to be happy

Anonymous

#22 7w

Yeah I don’t doubt that, but for the most part those women are religious and I’m not

Anonymous

#17 7w

Even if you get her number 99.9% of the time it won’t lead anywhere, so why bother

Anonymous

#23 7w

Agree!

Anonymous

#15 7w

Well I hope things get better for you man, I’m sure you’re a good dude and you’ll find someone

Anonymous

#1 7w

Took me a long time to figure out, I’m enough. Like; definitely not here to dismiss everything I got going on. Plenty there for the M-F shitshow and twice a day on weekends. But, if somebody comes along some day, gonna be something to really celebrate every day for.

Anonymous

#19 6w

That’s another lie you’re telling yourself. Man grow the fuck up. Stop making up bullshit in your head.

Anonymous

#22 6w

Go on and tell me a non religious reason a 20+ year old woman would be a virgin much less single in 2025

Anonymous

#19 6w

Scared to have sex? Doesn’t go outside much? Doesn’t use dating apps? One of my close friends is a woman whose 26 and is a virgin and doesn’t have a relationship and we used to date so yeah just stop

Anonymous

#22 6w

Dawg I don’t know a single person who meets any of those standards man or woman. You’re not talking about real people lmfao.

Anonymous

#19 6w

I am talking about a real person and we talk every day, she’s just lowkey autistic and loves watching nerdy tv shows. The reason we stopped dating is because she is a lesbian idk alright? People exist. I don’t know what to tell you. My step sister graduated college as a nurse without ever having a boyfriend. She might have gotten freaky without anyone knowing it, sure. But seriously

Anonymous

#19 6w

Meanwhile all of my step brothers are already married and I’m single so idk what to tell you man just keep an open mind