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What makes a guy dead set on not wanting a girl back? I’m not trying to look desperate but I’ve asked him if we can please fix things many times and he says no. Idk how you go from loving someone to never wanting to see them again
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Anonymous 11w

you look hella desperate rn ngl move on

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Anonymous 11w

He ain’t into you no more jus move on

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Anonymous 11w

You tell us. What made him so dead set? Why’d yall break up? Is it something that SHOULD have been a forever deal breaker? Did he give a reason when he rejected you afterward?

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Anonymous 11w

Well that’s largely dependent on the situation. I’m not sure what happened but the only way I’d be this dedicated to saying no is if you really hurt him. Stuff on a level of cheating.

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Anonymous 11w

At some point you make decision to move on, to learn from your past experience and take that into the future. I broke up with my ex on very good terms but that relationship is behind me.

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Anonymous 11w

If we break up there's always a reason behind it, so I accept that and move on. The reason for separation always boils down to the two people not being compatible, there's rarely good reason to get back together.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I know that probably isn’t a helpful answer but it’s really going to depend on who you are dealing with

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 11w

How is it desperate to show I care? I thought I did something to upset him that’s why I kept asking to fix things because I didn’t know what I did wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

I went out with my friend that’s a girl one night and then he started being weird and saying we had to end things because he don’t want to do long distance

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

because he said no, once someone says no, its kind of desperate to keep wanting to make it work with someone who doesnt want you

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Yes but I thought it was because I did something wrong, that’s why I kept trying to fix it

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

That’s true. He said we were too different, but I think it boiled down too that I don’t mind forming connections with people different than me and it doesn’t bother me. It bothered him though

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Connections and a relationship are 2 completely different things

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

I mean yeah but I don’t think it should affect the relationship either. If you like someone you won’t mind the differences

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Depends on the differences

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

well this might have been a deal breaker for him. I will say the way you are responding in the comments despite everyone saying to leave it alone also gives off desperation

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11w

Well I don’t really care to show I care

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Let the past be the past and move forward if you keep obsessing over this it’ll consume you

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

He claimed it was because we live too far but it was so sudden I don’t think that’s why

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

If he ain’t responding stop hitting him up fuck the reason why

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