Tbh I don’t think you need to tell your partner either as long as it’s not happening while you date
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Anonymous7w
Both should to be communicated imo.
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Anonymous7w
The top one is related to sexual health. If you read the comments you’d understand why people voted no.
The second one I don’t care about.
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Anonymous7w
You know why
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Anonymous7w
Also, looking back at this, I’m realizing the phrasing of “have to” versus “should” could have also contributed.
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Anonymous7w
Hypocrisy
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Anonymous7w
Bc one is “empowering” women and one isn’t
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Anonymous7w
I only reason I can think of is sexist double standards tbh.
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Anonymous7w
🐸☕️
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Anonymousforget_me_not7w
It absolutely is not about sexual health. We establish sexual health via STD tests.
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AnonymousOP7w
Did you read the comments of the posts? Either post
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Anonymousforget_me_not7w
It doesn't matter what the comments say, there is a scientific way to determine sexual health and asking private questions for the purpose of casting judgement on someone's character is not it
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AnonymousOP7w
Ive never heard of someone asking their new partner for an STD test though. Not without reason at least, and a long sexual history would be a good enough reason.
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AnonymousOP7w
Ngl its also just kinda gross like every time we screwing im worried im not matching up. On top of that if kids a possible future factor possible bullying sooo. And i actually think that if you have a pornography adiction that needs to be laid out on the table