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Is it bad if I date a 38 yr old while being 24 plz help he’s so handsome and sweet and experienced and excites me so much
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Anonymous 12w

Ur both adults do what you want

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Anonymous 12w

It’s fine, follow your heart

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Anonymous 12w

Do whatever you want it’s your life Just think it through and make sure he doesn’t have a secret wife or anything

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Anonymous 11w

No it’s not weird , you’re both grown adults if he’s great go for it

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Anonymous 12w

To me it's really weird, but in all technicality it would be "acceptable" especially since you are adult enough to actually go do whatever tf you want unrestricted

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Anonymous 11w

Date? Idk, you are both adults so consent is obviously up to both of you. But, in terms of what you guys have in common idk? It just strikes me a bit odd on his part, like as a 24yr old dude I can barely keep up convo with 30-33yr old coworkers. It just feels like the experience gap is wayyy too much, and specifically for our age range and the difference in childhoods we had. It’s a lot different than in the past.

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Anonymous 11w

You’re an adult. So is he, by the sound of it. That wasn’t exactly a recent development either. Who else’s permission exactly do you think you need?

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Anonymous 12w

Yes that’s weird as fuck on both ends

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 12w

Damnnnn. Thanks for keeping it real though 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 12w

That makes me feel better. I have been legal for over 6 years also my parents are 10 years apart and no one seemed to find that weird but o know there’s a huge maturity gap

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 11w

I’m literally going to a engagement between the same age range I’m pretty sure so no it’s not weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

I’d just be cautious about how successful you expect the relationship to be, and if you’re just looking to smash an older guy then just hit it and quit it. I think hooking up with an older person as an adult isn’t an issue ever really, it’s the dating part where problems arise

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