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Why r men (who choose to date) act like they don’t like women? Like they don’t schedule or help plans dates, act nonchalant etc I want to date but the guys I interact with (so far) act so odd
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Anonymous 1w

yearners usually get overlooked for being too eager and the guys you described usually get interest for being so non reactive/emotionless/mysterious

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Anonymous 1w

Putting in effort and being earnest is seen as cringe

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Anonymous 1w

I mean it seems to work

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

But we really don’t like that. Lol idk why that’s seemed as attractive or what we want

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

yeah but guys who seem too chalant are generally ignored. leaving the closed off dudes to look desired

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

really? the moment a guy shows me that he doesn’t care, he’s blocked

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

Idk I yearn and try to be romantic and get very minimal reciprocation so they seem to be doing something right if they getting partners lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

They don’t end up treating them well lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 1w

Who thinks that? Girls want the bare minimum

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

it just usually gets brought by people that are dismissed. it’s only seen as cringe bc it’s not a pretty dude

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