Ask Men on Yik Yak | I love my man but trying to walk with him anywhere is such a stressful experience. He does all these unpredictable erratic movements. Walks diagonally in front of me. the spatial awareness just isn’t there. How do I confront him about this?

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Ask Men 3w

I love my man but trying to walk with him anywhere is such a stressful experience. He does all these unpredictable erratic movements. Walks diagonally in front of me. the spatial awareness just isn’t there. How do I confront him about this?

Anonymous 3w

Hold his hand

Anonymous 3w

He also doesn’t communicate when we’re walking and just expects me to read his mind. Like he’ll make the sudden decision of “let’s go look over here”, and then bolts in front of me and cuts me off suddenly so that I trip. Then he gets upset that I walk a little further behind him but I’m genuinely scared of getting hurt if I walk next to him.

Anonymous 3w

You just need to tell him to be aware of his surroundings and to not push you or cut you off cause that’s rude. It sounds like he was an only child and his parents never told him not to do that as a kid

Anonymous

OP 3w

I miss being able to shut my brain off and just happily walk alongside a guy, and knowing that he won’t put me in harms way. I miss walking without worrying that Im going to get hurt, if I’m not constantly on high alert.