Is it a dealbreaker if a girl likes to drink? I’m in college for reference and most guys don’t care but I’ve had a few comments about it (I don’t get heavily drunk every time just a few drinks )
I dont care if a girl drinks but i do care if she’s being immature about it and getting drunk at frat parties every weekend doing sleepovers at the frat house 💔
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Anonymous10w
Mormons are the only ones who would say yes. Maybe if u were an alcoholic that would a different story but that just means ur able to have fun so it’s actually a green flag
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Anonymous10w
As long as you’re not an alcoholic
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Anonymous10w
Im definitely way lenient about drinking than I am about smoking/vaping. We wouldnt even be a thing if i knew you smoked/vaped, but drinking is fine for me, as long as im not constantly babysitting you
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Anonymous10w
For better or for worse, drinking is like, super normal. As long as you’re not an alcoholic, you’re in a pretty similar boat as at least half of college students.
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Anonymous#110w
I mean I don’t think I’m an alcoholic? It’s more just a social thing like if my friends wanna go out for dinner and drinks or out to the bars I’ll go. But once I graduate I’ll stop for the most part
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Anonymous#210w
What about just like casual drinks or out to the bars with friends? I don’t wanna look trashy but I only go to hangout with friends
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AnonymousOP10w
Lmao, yeah it’s pretty ovi when someone’s and alcoholic so if u don’t think so ur prolly good. Like I said anyone who has that as a dealbreaker is stuck up
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Anonymous#110w
What would make someone look like An alcoholic? I hope i don’t look like one 😭
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AnonymousOP10w
A mix of looking constantly hungover and if it gets really bad alcoholics will literally start shaking until they get their next drink
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Anonymous#110w
Let me make it very clear that what you are describing isn’t anything close to an alcoholic. You have have to get super drunk most to every night to become one
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Anonymous#110w
Ok good I mean I’ve had a few nights every once in a while where I take it too far but it’s usually just casual drinks on weekends
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AnonymousOP10w
Yeah that’s totally fine. Also remember that you are a college student. You are in an environment where drinking is the stereotype lmao
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AnonymousOP10w
Thats ok it’s just a problem if you’re getting back at like 3 in the morning piss drunk all the time
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Anonymous#210w
Plus if i were to date a girl that drinks i’d want to drink with her and make fancy cocktails, idc if she drinks with her friends but make time to drink with me too ok
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Anonymous#210w
Ok to be fair I am a lightweight so that happened a few times…but I’m doing better and now it’s just casual drinks
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Anonymous#510w
Yeah I don’t smoke or vape just drink. … I sometimes take it too far drinking but it’s because I’m a lightweight
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Anonymous#510w
Do u mean smoking cigs, weed or either of the 2?
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AnonymousOP10w
I mean yeah i wouldnt expect a girl to be a heavyweight drinker lmao thats y i would want her to be smart when drinking and not careless