If the girl’s making valid points then why are they arguing? Maybe you do it different where you’re from but if I’m arguing with my girl my sole objective and priority is to NOT be arguing with my girl. Her being right is a best case scenario since not only is the argument over, she’s happier. Losing is winning. Why would this man throw away his get-out-of-jail-free-card? Does he actually think he’s right? Or has he admitted he’s wrong and is speaking to why you wanna argue anyway?
Idk bro. If this happens regularly in conversation with a woman you’re close with, then one of you is probably abusive. Whether it’s her, via reactive abuse/emotional manipulation, or you, via pushing her buttons constantly and then patronizing her when she eventually cracks. I know two guys who might say what you’re saying online. One of them is an abuser, and the other has an abusive female family member. You could be either for all I know.