
All three of those have what you’re after. But change comes from within. The relationship wanters are everywhere. Finding someone you’re compatible with can be challenging, but externalizing that issue and ignoring individual compatibility will do nothing but blind you to the far more practical and growth-oriented question of *why* exactly a given person doesn’t want a relationship with you and why someone else should
Eg: I had a girl drop me for “not wanting a relationship” [with her]. The reason I didnt want a relationship (with her) was bc she had no interest in getting to know each other or enjoying our dates. She just wanted a relationship, rather than a good one or one with ME. But the next girl I met (on hinge) was so awesome I made it my priority to lock her down asap. BECAUSE she was awesome & theres no one I wanted more. But you cant skip the step of being someone someone wants to hang on to.