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Would yall date someone if you couldn’t have sex with them? Like they’re waiting for marriage and you’re not or something like that
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Anonymous 1w

No. Im just being honest. Sex is a huge part of the relationship for me. Beyond the act itself it’s the intimacy. I am dating for marriage and I don’t want to spend years with someone just to learn we are not intimately compatible

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Anonymous 1w

Yes. I would be perfectly fine with that. I haven’t had sex yet, so it’s not like I’m missing something I’ve had before

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Anonymous 1w

That’s what me and my gf are doing rn. I’m waiting for marriage, but she’s fine to wait. Well I don’t think she’s completely fine with it but, yknow

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Anonymous 1w

I’m waiting for marriage anyway, I just follow the advice St. Paul gives in 1 Corinthians 7

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Anonymous 2d

As a guy who is waiting for marriage, I see this as an absolute win.

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Anonymous 1w

Well my bf did

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Anonymous 1w

Then who IS she having sex with? Nah, couldn’t handle that. That’d start to get under my skin at some point

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Anonymous 1w

Naw

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Anonymous 1w

I would

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Anonymous 1w

Absolutely

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Anonymous replying to -> chartreuse_lion 1w

Dawg you’re a woman

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I would still date a guy if he was waiting. God forbid a girl wanna chime in lol HEHE.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

i am a women and i feel this way i genuinely feel bad for my friends who are waiting

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1w

I mean, not to be crude but: one wouldn’t commit to a car for the rest of one’s life without test driving it! 😂😂😂😂😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

you’re not in it for the sex though. that’s the point of waiting. you’re in it bc you’re in love with your partner and want to spend the rest of your life with them. i can imagine the sex is even better when you’ve waited for several years and know for a fact this is who you’re meant to be with

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1w

i understand this but the sex was with some of my exes was so bad even tho we tried and tried so many times to make it good it was just awful. sexual compatibility is important to me so i can’t imagine waiting. if sex isn’t that important to you then that’s understandable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 2d

Following Saint Paul (or any saint’s) advice is generally a good idea. Christ is Risen!

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

No one, she’s not having sex. Not with you. Not with your dad. Not with Ryan. No one. Maybe occasionally her hand, but no other person involved

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