Anonymous #1 1w

Yes! It’s def different. I’d rather they come up and say something.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Did we though? Or are you misinterpreting

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Anonymous OP 1w

You did. You probably couldn’t have made it clearer.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Well I never said that, I’d rather they approach. A lot of girls still do. Don’t let things online fool you

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Anonymous OP 1w

Yeah, guys aren’t gonna individually comb through each and every one of the 4 billion currently living women. The majority of yall don’t want to be approached so that principle is going to apply universally. Hope you enjoy the world yall made.

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Anonymous #2 1w

I’m literally telling you how it is in girl world, I’ve had discussion e my friends and girls elsewhere, we want men to still approach. If u are respectful it’s fine

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Anonymous #2 1w

And what “world we made”?

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Anonymous OP 1w

And I’m literally telling you how it is from the male perspective. If you and your clique like being approached that’s cool, most women don’t. Don’t get me wrong either it’s still plenty of guys who approach but on a large scale here in the west a massive migration has already taken place and as a result most men are living a resigned lifestyle when it comes to romantic relationships.

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Anonymous #2 1w

That’s the world you choose to live in. It’s all about mindset

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Anonymous OP 1w

Listen I get it because it’s hard for women to pay attention to things that aren’t necessarily meant for them but as a man it can become very easy to just think you’re old news these days. Studies show more than 45% of gen Z men in America have never asked out a girl in their life. That happened because thousands of women made it clear they don’t want to be approached. Almost half of us took the hint and kept it pushing.

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Anonymous #2 1w

If you don’t have the confidence to try and possibly get rejected that’s your own fault. I choose to try rather than not. You’re also putting down women, yet simultaneously wanting their attention

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Anonymous OP 1w

To be completely honest I don’t care for women’s attention. And again I understand how this is hard for you to understand but everything I’ve said is something men in our age group can relate to to some degree. I don’t necessarily want it to look like I’m entirely placing the blame on women either I understand there’s such a big factor in that men are taking the high road and giving up as opposed to searching for the root of the problem. And I understand it’s hard to think from the perspective

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Anonymous OP 1w

of a man but imagine during your formative years (13-20 years old) all you saw online was men talking about how they didn’t need women anymore. You probably wouldn’t be very interested in men.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Assuming that it’s hard for me to understand is 💀 I am still interested in men and want to date. But, I’m that wasn’t even the point necessarily of my post

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Anonymous OP 1w

Perhaps it’s just a force of habit, generally speaking I don’t meet many people who can envision anything from a different perspective. I’m glad you broke the mold.

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You would be shocked. Ask a pro lifer to imagine themselves from the perspective of a pregnant single mother and they’ll treat it like a Herculean task.

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*woman!!

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Anonymous #2 1w

That’s the extreme. The know what it’ll be like, they’re too egotistical and stubborn to say the truth, but the know it all along

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Anonymous OP 1w

No I think they genuinely can’t fathom the idea. Or if they can they can fathom a very romanticized version of it where the entire community comes together to raise the baby and the baby goes on to cure cancer or something lmfao

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Anonymous #2 1w

hey what does this have to do with staring at people? You can look at people without staring at them

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Anonymous #1 1w

Literally like that wasn’t even the point of my post per se

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Anonymous #1 1w

Well OP replied to you and said she’d rather guys come talk to her in person and I told her it’s not that simple

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Anonymous #3 1w

No but like it’s different. Some guys don’t want to approach now, so the alternative is staring. Do you see how but at would be weird?

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Anonymous #2 1w

Ur a weirdo

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Anonymous OP 1w

trust me, if men wanted to approach you they would

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Anonymous #3 1w

This is cap and a lie and a farce I see mad pretty women and I don’t stare stare but I’ll see them and then I won’t talk to them cuz I’m scared!!

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Anonymous #5 1w

bro wtf are you doing. if you think shes cute talk to her. you have nothing to lose.

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Anonymous #3 1w

No im scared thank you for the advice though!

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Anonymous #3 1w

There’s this whole discussion of men wanting to approach but they’re not wanting to bc they don’t want to be “creepy” (even tho they aren’t most of the time)

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Anonymous #6 1w

Literally, women are telling them what’s going on and they act obtuse about it

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Anonymous #5 1w

bro the worst case scenario is that she says no and you go on with your life and never have to see her again. best case scenario, she ends up being your wife. there is literally no downside.

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Anonymous #3 1w

No but I also have social anxiety it’s not just women dw

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