
bashing their interests usually leads to it, doesn’t really matter what they were. “save them”? he’s his own person and sometimes people have to walk less than ideal paths to find the one meant for them. i will say that people pushing against certain ideas tends to make younger people embrace them harder and faster
Red pilled thinks its women’s fault for everything and they dont want to date me cuz they are stuck up + stupid + shallow Black pilled is trying to looksmax all the time and being like “would she reject you if you looked like this?” typa things. They believe they are too ugly, too poor, and too unlucky to get a girl
As his older sister i try to give him good experiences with someone of the opposite gender and as a woman i dont want another misogynist man if i can prevent that!! Im mostly worried that my dad feeds him ideas that ate harmful bc he is certainly conservative and he even said that he half believes women should stay home and do housework as a 10 year old!! As a kid he needs to be put on the right path so he wont end up a social reject or feel like one! I think anything can be prevented
i definitely wouldn’t try to drive a wedge between him and your dad. if your dad fucks their relationship up on his own then you can be there for him. but it’s unlikely to get a young boy to write off or see your dad the way you do. and unless your dad talks legit shit on women across the board then it would be very difficult to get your brother on a similar page about how you feel. it’s likely his primary male role model and children are decent are sorting out the real vs bullshit up to a point
My dad is always drunk or about to get drunk and he isnt abusive but he definitely gets real talky n annoying so that pisses my brother off. I cant say he likes him but i guess that whole role model as a man does make sense to me from how they still are best buds despite some differences I guess i’ll have to have him like me more than my dad to get him on my side
like you can be kind to him and a solid sis but do not try to butt in or overtake your dad in your brothers mental hierarchy. if your brother gets annoyed then you can rest assured hes already well on his way to not being a dude like that. the last thing you want to do is come in and have him recoil away from you bc he wasn’t seeking for you to be that figure. would be a fast track to making him act exactly like you don’t want him to tbh