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I have a second date with a guy Saturday that I am super excited about but I am very stressed about who pays. It’s not about the money but I just want to get it right. He paid for the first date kinda a lot and it was somewhat a joint idea for this date
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Anonymous 3w

Well when you get there you could offer to pay if you’re comfortable with it then see what he says

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Anonymous 3w

Tell him you want to pay and see what he says

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Anonymous 3w

Not a question

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Anonymous 3w

would you prefer he pay, if so let him (ol but don't break his back with the order if you can)

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Anonymous 3w

Who asked who out?

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Anonymous 3w

just offer he will most likely pay most dudes pay the whole 50/50 shit is internet degenerates dnt trip shawty

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

He asked me on the first date. The second one he also asked me out but I was fishing for it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Ok then offer to split, but not too hard then.

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Anonymous replying to -> amethyst_bacon 3w

This is what I’m leaning towards but would it offend some guys?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I don’t see why it would offend him tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

It wouldn’t offend him to the point of not liking you. I’ve had girls offer to pay on second dates and it actually is a green flag they’re thinking about it, but I am just fine paying. Maybe it’s just me but I don’t plan dates I don’t feel I can afford

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Anonymous replying to -> stanczyk 3w

so i say just let him pay

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