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Nice guy aren’t even better. Why do other men preach that women should date them ?
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Anonymous 3w

“Nice guys” and genuinely kind men are very different things

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Anonymous 3w

Nice guys are deceptive and that’s just another lie. Assuming you mean the nice guy you give a chance then does a personality 180 on you

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Anonymous 3w

anyone who says "im a nice guy" is in fact not a nice guy

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Because their pick mes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Looks aren’t the best but they seem to have a nice heart so that enough to date them .

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

How so ?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Because their niceness is performative. They just want the validation that comes with being chosen. Once they’re rejected, they either continue to try and prove themselves or they lash out(revealing their true self and intentions).

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

So now that I like him he want nothing to do with me cause he got his validation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Sure but are you actually attracted to him overall. Seems like you’re disappointed so far

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

After talking to him I can say I do. Most guys are bad at taking pictures. I just don’t appreciate the ghosting

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

He seem very sweet wanting texting all day and once I showed interest it’s cricket. There only so many chance trying to date to end up in this situation . Eventually I want give up dating all together

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

He didn’t call himself that but he definitely try to protray himself like that with the mass texting for 2 weeks ( he wouldn’t spam 3-8 text at once everytime ) just to ghost

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Then he probably isn’t very nice if he stopped responding to you randomly??

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