“Nice guys” and genuinely kind men are very different things
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Anonymous31w
Nice guys are deceptive and that’s just another lie. Assuming you mean the nice guy you give a chance then does a personality 180 on you
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Anonymous31w
anyone who says "im a nice guy" is in fact not a nice guy
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Anonymous31w
Because their pick mes
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Anonymous#131w
Looks aren’t the best but they seem to have a nice heart so that enough to date them .
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Anonymous#231w
How so ?
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AnonymousOP31w
Because their niceness is performative. They just want the validation that comes with being chosen. Once they’re rejected, they either continue to try and prove themselves or they lash out(revealing their true self and intentions).
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Anonymous#231w
So now that I like him he want nothing to do with me cause he got his validation
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AnonymousOP31w
Sure but are you actually attracted to him overall. Seems like you’re disappointed so far
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Anonymous#131w
After talking to him I can say I do. Most guys are bad at taking pictures. I just don’t appreciate the ghosting
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Anonymous#331w
He seem very sweet wanting texting all day and once I showed interest it’s cricket. There only so many chance trying to date to end up in this situation . Eventually I want give up dating all together
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Anonymous#431w
He didn’t call himself that but he definitely try to protray himself like that with the mass texting for 2 weeks ( he wouldn’t spam 3-8 text at once everytime ) just to ghost
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AnonymousOP31w
Then he probably isn’t very nice if he stopped responding to you randomly??