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How do you deal with it if they cancel? Took a day off work and I have this entire day planned for us, she just needs to relax or even lmk what she’d like. I’m really hoping she doesn’t cancel😕 Ps. Girl here
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Anonymous 15w

I just wanna be prepared, cuz I’m kinda looking forward to this a lot

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Anonymous 15w

Do something else or do the stuff you wanted to do alone. Your happiness shouldn’t be dependent on someone else especially in the beginning

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Anonymous 15w

Looks like you got unlucky with their burnout overlapping with your excitement. I’d be disappointed, but wouldn’t call it a red flag if its a one off thing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

You sound like you did a great job. This person might not deserve that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

I’m more of a ‘they deserve it until proven otherwise’ kind of person. I won’t regret treating them nicely if they turn out to be douchy or similar, I’ll just withdraw my care. If she cancels, I’ll feel pretty down, but I’ll be fine after

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

You bro you must be resistant. Can’t be me.

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Anonymous replying to -> loverboy 15w

?? Genuinely what are you talking about?:/

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Yeah, that’s probably what I’ll do.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15w

She got burnt out from work or similar.

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Anonymous replying to -> loverboy 15w

Where does it indicate that in my post? Actually, nothing in my post indicates that she didn’t show up or canceled..?? The day isn’t even here yet..??? 😭✋

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Anonymous replying to -> loverboy 15w

Dawg, this post is just asking for how to deal with it if she does cancel✋😔

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