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Ok so if a guy has been super flirty with you for a week and then suddenly doesn’t wanna hang out as often, but is also still being super friendly over text. What does it mean 😭
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Anonymous 1d

Is it cool if we ask what happens if you suggest hanging out? And when you all hung out in the past, was it hanging out as friends who flirt or was it dates?

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Anonymous 1d

Got busy just wait it out

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Anonymous 1d

Based on what you said I would think he still likes you, but is busier and isn’t feeling like giving you the alone time he has left right now. Maybe offer to let him make plans for the next time he’s less busy, and then you’ll know more

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Anonymous 1d

He might just be tired or busy. Could be on trying to do stuff with friends or family for fall break. Probably nothing serious unless something unfortunate happened in his personal life that he’s dealing with

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Anonymous 1d

His gf came back

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

So we used to hang out every day after classes and shit, we’d always come back to my dorm, study and play Roblox. My roommate said the way we both act around each other can be seen as flirting (play fighting). But this weekend I kept trying to make plans to hang out or meet up to study and he keeps saying stuff like “I have essays I have to write” when I can clearly see that he’s online on a game.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

He probably just not in the mood sometimes people got no social battery don’t overthink it it probably has nothing to do with u and if u do it will just annoy him

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Gotcha, thanks for explaining! I agree with the other commenters it seems like he just needs some time to himself for now! Feel free to just keep talking when you all can and it's quite possible he'd wanna see you again soon

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