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Ask Men 14h
Where are the ones of u that take things slow hiding? Where do I find such men is there a secret hangout spot? A treehouse somewhere? Every man I talk to I try to set boundaries on the first date and they just try and try and try to do stuff
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Anonymous 12h

For me at least, I just chill at home when I’m not out at classes, the gym or my internship so I guess I’m just not in public much

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

Yeah I assumed so. But i find it so much harder to flirt in the gym and stuff bc it’s just not as normalized. And I love going up to guys personally but I feel like it’d go downhill and I’d never be able to show up again lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Yeah I can see why you’d have apprehension about that. Personally I think it’s fine if you strike up conversations with people you think are cool or interesting as long as you’re not going up to them after they’ve asked to be left alone. If you’re looking for something slower, it might help to try to make friends with guys you find interesting and then see if there’s mutual interest after getting to know each other more platonically

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