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Why do guys become mean and lazy weeks before breaking up w you?
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Anonymous 12w

its the same as when girls check out of a relationship a few months before

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Anonymous 12w

isn’t that selfish

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Anonymous 12w

…because they want to break up with you? Like what

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Anonymous 12w

They probably wanted you to break with them before they ended up breaking up with you instead.

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Anonymous 12w

Don’t ladies do the same they mentally check out before it’s actually over

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 12w

Ugh damn. I want to do the check out before breaking up w him but he beat me to it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

yk what you could do instead? just like a healthy break up. if you're not feelin it, leave like a half decent human being instead of dragging it out. idk tho dont @ me

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Anonymous replying to -> freestyle 12w

to treat someone like shit bc ur mentally checked out instead of just breaking up

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Anonymous replying to -> seeya_space_cowboy 12w

Seconded

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

They can, in fact I was about to do that because of how lazy he was with me. I wanted to mentally check out before letting go but he ended up breaking up before I had the chance to start my process

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

It’s so messed up because he had the chance to let go while still having me, treated me like shit for a few weeks, and now I have to let go on my own

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

Yeah no weeks before is crazy but this is just a thing people do

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

i’m so sorry you are going through this, who cares if woman do it too, either way that’s not fair to you, and i honestly suggest using chatgpt for clarity and understanding how you feel and how he left you feeling, unfortunately we can’t control other people and their action/emotions but we can control how we ourselves feel/react/act

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