Ask Men on Yik Yak | How easy is it to tell if a girl likes you? I feel like I am the most obvious person when I have a crush, but I want the male perspective.

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Ask Men 4w

How easy is it to tell if a girl likes you? I feel like I am the most obvious person when I have a crush, but I want the male perspective.

Anonymous 4w

I can never tell. Then again, I don’t think a woman has ever actually liked me

Anonymous 4w

I assume they’re that friendly

Anonymous 4w

We are dense

Anonymous 4w

Usually it’s not, especially if they’re shy. But some things make it glaringly obvious. Guys miss subtle stuff, but if you do the right things / are clear with your body language, a lightbulb turns on in our brains

Anonymous 4w

Responds fast and is interested in what the other has to say. Can keep a convo going

Anonymous 4w

We’re super dense when it comes to picking up on hints, I fear…

Anonymous

#1 4w

Okay but in person

Anonymous

OP 4w

Isn't on their phone, looks at you and can hold eye contact. Small gestures

Anonymous

#1 4w

Ooooo okay. I’m definitely the kind of person that communicates that way and can be a very touchy person.

Anonymous

#2 4w

So if I’m clearly only touchy with you and chat a certain way you’ll figure it out?

Anonymous

#3 4w

That’s what I feared

Anonymous

OP 4w

Yeah, but remember boundaries. Some examples: A girl (who you are already friends with / familiar with) hits you playfully on the shoulder. I miss a lot of signals, but this one is basically Guy for “I like you” (unless you’ve been like childhood friends for 5 years) Or if a girl makes an effort to talk with you. Ie you’re both leaving a location at the same time and she walks you out / be one on one in general

Anonymous

#2 4w

I will keep that in mind. Thanks for explaining it

Anonymous

#5 4w

Better than reading too much into it