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Ask Men 20w
How easy is it to tell if a girl likes you? I feel like I am the most obvious person when I have a crush, but I want the male perspective.
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Anonymous 20w

I can never tell. Then again, I don’t think a woman has ever actually liked me

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Anonymous 20w

I assume they’re that friendly

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Anonymous 20w

We are dense

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Anonymous 20w

Usually it’s not, especially if they’re shy. But some things make it glaringly obvious. Guys miss subtle stuff, but if you do the right things / are clear with your body language, a lightbulb turns on in our brains

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Anonymous 20w

Responds fast and is interested in what the other has to say. Can keep a convo going

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Anonymous 20w

We’re super dense when it comes to picking up on hints, I fear…

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Okay but in person

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Isn't on their phone, looks at you and can hold eye contact. Small gestures

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 20w

Ooooo okay. I’m definitely the kind of person that communicates that way and can be a very touchy person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

So if I’m clearly only touchy with you and chat a certain way you’ll figure it out?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 20w

That’s what I feared

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 20w

Yeah, but remember boundaries. Some examples: A girl (who you are already friends with / familiar with) hits you playfully on the shoulder. I miss a lot of signals, but this one is basically Guy for “I like you” (unless you’ve been like childhood friends for 5 years) Or if a girl makes an effort to talk with you. Ie you’re both leaving a location at the same time and she walks you out / be one on one in general

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 20w

I will keep that in mind. Thanks for explaining it

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 20w

Better than reading too much into it

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