
Not a man but a woman who enjoys casual frequently and hears guys perspectives. a lot of guys just aren’t that interested in romance. Dating as a man can hold a lot of expectations and requires a lot of effort, especially in early stages. a lot of them just aren’t interested in doing all that. they either feel it’s not worth it or they have other priorities in their life.
Bc that makes it hurt so much less when you switch up on us. Bc we learned our lesson. We were all romantics. Until we weren’t Women (if you let yourself care about them) aren’t normally disposable to guys like guys are. We cant change our mind overnight about being in love. You can’t imagine how bad it hurts when the person you love switches up on you and you DONT have a hundred replacements in line. The only fix is to fall in love very slowly, or care less.