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how to get over being ghosted? i feel so ugly right now.
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Anonymous 10w

Ghosters are just afraid of commitment they liked you before so youre defo hot

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Anonymous 10w

Everyone’s immature these days, tons of people ghost. It just means they weren’t for you

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Anonymous 10w

If you find out tell me too

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Anonymous 10w

Find someone better

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Anonymous 10w

Happens to people all the time. It’s got nothing to do with you but everything to do with that person. They’re just an asshole, so don’t waste your energy on someone like that

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Anonymous 10w

Think of it as the trash taking itself out

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Anonymous 10w

not a guy here.. but just don’t revolve your life around getting validation from others. not everyone is going to like you, sometimes people don’t have reasonings. opinions are like assholes, everyone has one, but everyone shits out differently. when you revolve your life around others’ opinions, it can come off as desperate. guys typically like it when girls have their own personality & life outside of them (coming from someone who has several guy friends& this is what they tell me)

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Anonymous 10w

If it makes you feel better I hardly ever have ghosted people over looks (and thats only if they severely catfished me)

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Anonymous 10w

Haha

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Anonymous 9w

Saving this as I’m going through the same thing rn 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> oranguru 10w

that’s really difficult

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

The further removed you are from the ghosting the more you realize you only hyped that person up in your mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 10w

when you aren’t your own person outside of that relationship/situationship, you could lose yourself in the process & only see yourself in that person’s life & become codependent. a bunch of guys aren’t huge fans of girls being codependent. pick up a hobby, have your own friends, take accountability in the wrong or mistake (even when you don’t think you did something wrong, cause they may have a different opinion), have fun with your life, don’t revolve your every single minute life with the dude

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 10w

i feel like that almost makes me feel worse to know my personality couldn’t keep him

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 10w

thank you sweet queen❤️

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